Watching a loved one struggle with hearing loss can be deeply troubling. They may be hesitant to seek help due to denial, fear of stigma, or the belief that hearing issues are just a part of aging that one must learn to accept.
To break through these barriers requires patience, understanding, and supportive strategies. Here are some tips on how we can encourage those dear to us to take the first steps towards better hearing health.
Recognizing the Signs
Before initiating a conversation about hearing loss, make sure you know how to recognize the signs of hearing loss. These can include:
- Asking people to repeat themselves
- Increasing the volume on devices
- Difficulty following conversations, especially in noisy environments
- Withdrawing from social situations
- Misunderstanding what others say or struggling with miscommunication
Identifying these signs is the first step in understanding the challenges your loved one is facing.
How to Have the Conversation
When you’re ready to have a conversation with your loved one, keep these tips in mind:
Choose the Right Time and Place
Choose a quiet, comfortable setting to start a conversation. Make sure it’s at a time when both of you are calm and relaxed. Express your concerns gently, focusing on specific observations and avoiding blame. For example, “I’ve noticed you’re having difficulty following conversations in noisy places, and I’m concerned about you.”
Educate About Hearing Aids
Many assume that hearing aids are bulky, uncomfortable, or overly conspicuous, based on outdated stereotypes. Providing information about modern advancements in hearing care can demystify the process and remove some of their apprehension.
Share Stories
Personal stories of others who have successfully addressed their hearing loss can be incredibly persuasive. These stories can normalize hearing loss and hearing aids. They’ll also show the positives that come from seeking help, such as improved relationships and quality of life.
Normalize the Experience
Normalize hearing tests by comparing them to regular health check-ups such as vision tests. This can help reduce stigma and present hearing care as a regular part of health maintenance.
Talk About Technology
You can talk about the advancements in hearing technology and how modern devices come in a range of styles. Highlight how these technologies can seamlessly fit into your loved one’s life.
Focus on the Benefits
Outline the personal and social benefits of improved hearing, such as engaging more fully in conversations, enjoying social gatherings, and an overall boost in confidence and independence.
Propose a Hearing Test
Recommend starting with an easy first step – a professional hearing test. Emphasize that this is about gathering information to make informed decisions, and they don’t have to make a decision about hearing aids right away.
Offer Support
Offer to be there every step of the way, whether by booking the appointment, driving them, or just being present during the test for emotional support.
Set an Example
If applicable, consider getting your hearing tested as well, even if you don’t suspect any issues. This can diminish any feelings of being singled out. We recommend that adults get a hearing test every few years to monitor their hearing health.
Use Positive Communication Strategies
During the conversation with your loved one, use positive communication strategies:
- Listen and Validate: Acknowledge your loved one’s feelings and concerns without immediate counterarguments. Sometimes, feeling heard and understood can significantly lower resistance.
- Use “I” Statements: Focus on how the situation affects you and your relationship with them, such as, “I feel sad when I see you withdrawing from conversations because I know how much you used to enjoy them.”
- Avoid Ultimatums: Ultimatums can lead to defensiveness or withdrawal. Create an environment of empathy and understanding, focusing on shared goals for well-being and happiness.
As part of the conversation, be prepared for setbacks or refusals. Resistance is often part of the journey towards acceptance and action. Respect their pace, offering regular but gentle encouragement without pressuring. Let them know you’re in this together, focusing on the positive outcomes of addressing hearing issues.
Book a Hearing Test
Encouraging a loved one to seek help for hearing issues can help them improve their quality of life and give them the tools to connect with their family and friends. With your support, they can take the first step toward better hearing health. Remember, the journey to improved hearing is a team effort, and you’re an integral part of that team.
Contact us today to book a hearing test.
